It's not everyday a world renowned poet, a former U.S. Poet
Laureate, and the author of the poem you read at your Mom's funeral comes to
your hometown. So I just had to go see Billy Collins (via poets.org, bigsnap.com, bestcigarette.us) author of "The
Lanyard," when he came to Woodstock today.
We didn't know he was coming until a few days after Mom's funeral. So I
immediately contacted the Woodstock Opera House for tickets and learned they were
sold out. That was disappointing. But I talked to a friend and
Opera House employee about it and he called the next day with the news that some tickets opened up. We picked up two.
This morning we dropped off the two youngest at a friend/church member's house and went to see Billy Collins. He read poems for about an hour: a sonnet or two, a handful of haiku, and the rest his typical, informal-style poetry. He was funny, thoughtful, and engaging. The crowd clapped and laughed, and even gasped at insightful lines. It was brilliant, just brilliant. I can't believe anyone can think poetry is over their head if it comes from Billy Collins.
I have three of his books and wanted them signed, so I got in line and met Billy Collins. I told him I read "The Lanyard" at my Mom's funeral. The lady next to him (I don't think I've ever met her before) said something like, "Are you the guy with the Woodstock blog? I was telling Billy about what you said on your blog." How cool is that? He was very personable and showed real concern. He asked how well I got through the poem, you know, without crying. I told him I did fine. So then he signed my three books, including just above "The Lanyard" poem, and then we posed for a photo via my hot wife. He said the photo would probably end up on the blog. He was right.
I think Billy Collins has become my favorite living poet. Watch his animated poetry, buy his books, listen to his live readings, or attend a live reading. Here's a big archive of Billy reading poems. I think you may just learn to love poetry, or love it even more.
I was at Pastor Steve's church last week when he spoke about the loss of his mother and read The Lanyard, and I dont remember a time in my life that I have truly contemplated who my mother was. Holding back tears, I thought of what it would be like to have a mom that I could describe like Steve had. " She gave untill it hurt." "My dad is devistated."
My mother was an alcoholic, and I have physical scars to prove that. She stabbed my stepfather to death infront of me. She was of so much hurt and pain. Every word she spoke was a lie and ever meeting we had was extreme in all that word can meen... but I love her. I cannot love her.
God himself puts us in the place we need, doesn't He!! If God can love me despite of the hatred in my own heart, and can make life better( truely better) by allowing what we fear most to become the most fearful reality we live... love is soo worth it.
My mom died on my birthday in 95 and however screwed up she was, I'll finish with this: I now lead children in ministry and where the most hurt is in my life God has called me, no commanded me to REDEEM!
Steve, Thank you for letting us share your life. Bye the way, today( as you wrote ) was divine.
Posted by: Ed Urias | 04/19/2007 at 11:13 PM
You met Billy Collins! I am jealous.
Posted by: Mark DeVine | 04/20/2007 at 09:06 AM
I love Billy Collins' poetry...Thanks for the animations...Give a listen to this segment of Prairie Home Companion...especially the poem "tension".
Posted by: Dave | 04/20/2007 at 11:23 AM
Dave, he read "Tension" here in Woodstock. It was my first experience with the poem. Loved it. I know the PHC audio is out there but haven't heard it yet. I'll get it. Thanks.
Posted by: Steve McCoy | 04/20/2007 at 11:32 AM